Policy Forum #2 - Highlight of Comments
- Alternative Dispute Resolution should be a method of first resort for decision-makers for all matters.
- The Director should be obligated to notify the family's First Nation at the point that a family comes into contact with the agency - from the first call. The First Nation must be involved in all planning processes for children in care.
- Continuing contact with families and communities will stop children from feeling lost and isolated.
- Promote the partnership element in legislation around First Nation representation in delivery of service. Promote it so that down the road First Nations will be able to deliver service.
- Complications arise when women don't report when there is family violence and therefore we need to develop clear definitions of what the various terms mean. There is fear that children will be taken away if reports of family violence exist.
- I favour the option of open adoption. Anything that would promote a child to have contact with family. This needs to be in legislation. Move to open access for children that move into the permanent system.
- The law should reflect collaborative decision-making processes to ensure multiple voices are heard in the act.
- Children in care need to be given the option to stay in care longer if that is what they want.
- A community advisory group could assist in decision-making so that discretion is minimized.
- If the First Nation is involved then they need to make opportunities and assist adoptive parents provide a cultural upbringing.
- Sometimes we need to sit back and think about the birth parents. They may not feel good or have shame about not being able to buy things for children that the department did. What message does this send the children?
- If we are saying that children are able to consent to adoption at age 12, then why aren't they ready for their birth family information until age 18?
- There needs to be more circles and family conferences and that is where the family comes in. They (circles/conferences) are pretty powerful because that's where the ideas are generated. Everyone becomes aware of what is happening with the child.
- The First Nation should have full party status in everything. There has to be funding in place and training for people the First Nation wants to be there.
- With mandatory reporting we need a clear definition so people know what they have to report. Need to educate the public.
- We need a range of interventions from least to most intrusive where there would be no consent (by parents). Children should remain in their own home and have the abuser removed and the child should have supports in the home.
- The primary caregiver should identify who they would like to have facilitate the (family) conference. One of the roles of the facilitator would be to ensure that participants follow through with what they commit themselves to.
- The child has the right to know their roots, what stick gambling is, when a member of their family dies, how grieving happens.
- Mediation may not be appropriate if the child is at risk. I don't think a child's immediate need will be addressed in this process.
- The Act almost needs to be called a different name. It needs to consider the various types of community this act will serve.
- The law should mandate involvement of a legal Child Advocate and a First Nation worker in decisions in regards to First Nation children.
- Years ago the kids I fostered were made permanent and mom and dad were made to say goodbye and no visits were allowed. Now children can be made permanent and can have regular and good visits and be involved and there is a big difference. But I also know there needs to be an even bigger one.
- Justice committees in communities are also a good alternative to court.
- Try to get the consent to intervene from a parent as a first option. Do an investigation when there is an indicator of abuse and ensure you talk to the parent as quickly as possible.
- Sometimes people need longer (to get healthy). It is hard to expect parents to change in a short period of time. As long as the child is safe, then give them the time.