Ages and Stages
There are some of the milestones that mark the progress of young children as they develop speech and language skills
Birth to 3 months Birth to 3 months
- looks at you while getting fed
- quiets when hearing familiar voices and sounds
- makes cooing and gurgling sounds
- is startled by loud noises
What you can do:
- look at your baby when feeding, bathing or changing him/her
- talk and sing to your baby
- make cooing and gurgling sounds back to your baby
3 to 6 months
- turns eyes or head toward sounds
- responds to you by making sounds and/or moving arms and legs
- smiles and laughs
- begins to make speech-like sounds – buh, ma, boo
What you can do:
- smile and laugh with your baby
- show interest in the sounds your baby is making and repeat them back
- provide a variety of sounds (e.g., music, outside noises, animal sounds, toys) and show excitement in the sounds you hear
- tell your baby what you are doing when you feed, bath or dress him/her
6 to 9 months
- responds to hearing their own name
- understands “No”
- looks at common objects or family members when their names are mentioned
- babbles sounds in a series – bababa, dadada, mamama
What you can do:
- point to people, pictures and common objects and say their names
- look at books, point to the pictures and name them
- say sounds back and forth with your child as long as he/she is interested
- sing songs
9 to 12 months
- understands simple requests – “Give it to mommy”, “Don’t touch”
- Understands simple questions – “where’s your ball?”
- uses gestures or sounds to let you know what he/she wants or needs
- says first word
- begins to play pat-a-cake and peek-a-boo
What you can do:
- encourage your child to use gestures and respond to them (e.g., when child raises arms to be picked up, say “You want up?” and then pick the child up)
- talk about things you are doing using simple words and short sentences
- Listen carefully to the sounds your child makes. You may hear their first word, e.g., ba for “ball”, u for “up”, mook for “milk”
- play with your child and have fun
12 to 18 months
- follows simple spoken directions, such as “Get the ball”
- points to people, body parts or toys when asked
- uses connected sounds that sound like sentences in a different language (jibberish)
- uses 10 or more words
- uses common expressions – oh no, all gone
What you can do:
- look at books and tell stories about the pictures, or choose books that your child can hold (e.g., board, cloth or bath books)
- talk back to your child when he/she talks to you
- use real words, not baby talk (e.g., say “Give me” instead of ta ta and “bottle” not baba)
- pay attention to what your child is saying, not how he/she says it
- play games and use toys and objects that your child enjoys
18 to 24 months
- uses 20 or more words
- combines two or more words, such as “more juice”
- uses many different speech sounds at beginning of words, such as p, b, m, t, d, n
- takes turns “talking” back and forth with you
- listens to simple stories, rhymes and songs
What you can do:
- use different kinds of words when you talk with your child (in, big, happy, jumping)
- encourage your child to play with other children (e.g., library story times, play groups)
- name and copy different sounds your child hears (e.g., dog barking, bird singing, fire engine siren)
- use the adult way of saying words or phrases without correcting your child directly (e.g., child says daddy car, you say “Yes, daddy’s in the car. Let’s go.”)